Plenty of men have opted out of the dating market these days.
“It’s too hard to meet a woman! My life is so much more peaceful!”
Please. Taking the easy, selfish way out is cowardice. If that’s the path you want to walk down, fine – just admit you’re taking the childish option here.
So I’d never say that men should stop talking to women. They’re not all the vain, materialistic, bear-choosing psychopaths you sometimes think they are. Even if many are, that’s not all of them.
Giving up on all women means giving up on the future. Your duty is to figure out how to make it work.
But please, brother, stop showering them with undeserved praise, attention and money.
A good yardstick for decisions and philosophies is Beauty, Truth and Goodness. If something is all three, it’s excellent. If it’s none of those, it’s terrible.
(By this yardstick, woke ideology is 0/3 and is therefore awful.)
Attractive women overflow with Beauty. A gorgeous, radiant, feminine soul might be one of the most beautiful things in the world.
Appreciate it when you see it because there’s not enough of it in the world.
But it’s not True that a Beautiful woman deserves much for that. Your value comes from what you provide for other people. It probably takes a lot of effort to make a few hundred dollars – and if you can make that sort of cash quickly and easily, it’s probably because you’ve studied, taken risks and figured out something difficult.
And yet a casual browse through social media will show thousands of women expecting that from you, just for the privilege of a first date with them.
No. As precious as Beauty is, hard work is rarer and more valuable to society. If you earned your money, then they need you more than you need them.
And none of this is Good. Take a young man fawning over some babe who likes stringing him along. He’s a classic simp, messaging her every day and dropping everything to do favours for her.
That’s not Good for him, obviously. He could focus on women who appreciate him – or himself.
It’s not Good for the women. Being worshipped by losers is terrible for the psyche. Think of any celebrity you don’t like – this is what they live through. And why they think people should listen to their oh-so unique and interesting opinions.
This is how you get insane takes from women like how they should get paid to just exist, bears are safer than men, women are just you know better you know and all men should die.
None of that is anywhere near being Beautiful, Good or True.
And yet women not only have these ideas but they celebrate them in each other. Men don’t do that – we can’t afford to. Whenever men do something stupid, other men call them out on it.
Example: a few seconds ago when I told you that giving up on dating is stupid and cowardly. I see the appeal of the MGTOW movement but the fact it keeps growing is a huge disappointment.
My point is it’s bad for Beautiful women when you worship them for just existing.
And if it’s bad now, imagine how bad it is for them when they’re in the 40s and the supply of adoration runs dry.
Going cold turkey isn’t pretty.
The solution here is simple. Admire Beauty, but don’t mistake it for a real achievement. Doing things and having character are much more important – and more deeply Beautiful in the long run.
Simple doesn’t mean easy, though, and there’ll always be losers to simp for pretty girls.
Be a man of substance and stop simping. The culture follows men like you.
Especially if you’re the sort of man who knows about this: