If you have an emotional block, then that block is changing. 

If you tend to get anxious around strangers… angry at your political rivals… sad about the future… crave pity… 

… then these things holding you back aren’t static. They constantly change. 

If you practice them, then they get bigger, stronger and less nuanced. That anger shifts from a frustration at policies to an anger at politicians to a seething rage at everyone who votes the wrong way. 

Or it softens. 

It can do other things, too. It can shift to new targets, evolve from anger into pity, and change in countless other ways. 

You can’t cross the same river twice and you can’t feel the same sensation twice.  

So you have a choice. 

You can’t choose to preserve your problems as they are.  

But you can choose how they change. 

If you want them to lessen, soften and stop getting in your way? 

Well, I recommend you give No Hopeless Men a read. It’s short and sharp, like a scalpel for cutting away dead emotional tissue. 

Here’s the link: 

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/

Want some advice? Here’s some advice: 

Be a good man. 

Any advice that doesn’t distil down into that isn’t worth heeding.  

If you’re the sort of man who asks why should I?, then do it for selfish reasons. Do it because good men tend to be happier. 

If you ask how do I do that?, then incinerate that question. You already know how to be a good man. 

Is that too big a step though? Here’s a smaller goal for you: 

Be less pathetic. 

“What do you mean by that? Who decides what’s pathetic or not? It’s so subjective!” 

Just stop. You already know what less pathetic looks like. If you can’t face the truth yourself, think of someone you admire and wonder how they’d answer that.  

… oh? 

What’s that? 

You think be less pathetic is some obvious advice? 

Great! That means you aren’t too absorbed by social media, where you’ll see how millions of folks celebrate weakness. 

Some of them mean well, thinking that society would somehow be fine if everyone only did what they wanted.  

(The toilets would be filthy in that world…) 

Some of them are too lazy or anxious to work hard, so they gravitate towards any system that tells them they don’t have to. 

Others are just genuinely low in intelligence. 

Scattered among those are some easily influenced, some creative souls, some optimists who think socialism could actually work this time… 

Some are smart, some are dullards, but they all support a philosophy that would erode even the things they support fast and thoroughly. 

Oh well. 

I doubt any socialist would want to read No Hopeless Men. They might like the title – they are a fascinatingly optimistic lot, able to overlook generations of failure and misery – but that’s where the affection ends. 

They don’t like that they have to put the work in. 

And they certainly don’t like that they’d have to pay for it. 

It’s not a lot of time or effort but, to someone who expects free housing and education, it wouldn’t take much to exclude them. 

If you’re willing to invest in yourself, though? 

You might find this way to transcend anxiety is well worth it: 

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/

If you want to crush a populace, how do you do it? 

You can’t oppress them if they have hope. 

You can’t demoralise them if they have hope. 

Not for long, at least.  

Hope can keep you in the fight. It can keep you alive against the odds. 

Done right, it can topple empires and rewrite the rules of what you think is possible.  

So it’s time to practice hope. 

I know many of you think dating is pointless. It’s too hard to meet someone. Everyone is on the apps these days and the apps aren’t great. Even if you get a date, they’ll probably be crazy, political, demanding, ungrateful and disloyal. 

Right? 

Well, maybe. 

But even if that’s true, that’s no reason to give up hope. 

There’s always a chance – always. 

And your chances improve when you stack the odds. 

Finding a great relationship might not be easy but it gets easier when you shed your own bull manure. Want to win? The first step is to stop sabotaging yourself. 

Here’s how: 

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/

If it was any – or even all – of the following, you’re not alone: 

• Anger, 
• Fear, 
• Sadness, 
• Exhaustion,  
• Pessimism, 
• Boredom, 
• Desperation, or 
• Overwhelm. 

If you’d like to find a girl, then any of these can get in your way. I see a lot of frustration these days towards women – their high standards for men and low standards for themselves being a classic. 

That’s far from the only one. 

Fear? Well, there’s fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of dying alone, fear of getting taken advantage of…  

Sadness? Maybe you’re hoping for a Florence Nightingale situation where some bright spark will see your troubled soul, swooping in to bring you back to happiness before falling in love with you. Or maybe you’re just bleak. 

Relationships require work. Dating requires thought. If you think you’re past your limit there, you might just give up in exhaustion. 

Pessimism beats you without a fight. 

Boredom shuts you down. No one is truly boring – every person alive has fascinating depths waiting for you to explore them. Unless, of course, you’re bored yourself.  

Desperation isn’t attractive. 

That just leaves overwhelm. With so many apps, so many places to meet people, so many rules to follow and red flags to look out for, it’s easy to let this be an excuse to not take any action. 

But none of this has to stop you. 

In fact, there’s a quick remedy that works on all of these. 

You can even do it while at your desk or in bed. 

The results? 

You’ll likely lesson – and maybe even liberate yourself from – the things that held you back. 

What could be a better way to start 2024 than that? 

Read on: 

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/

Merry Christmas! 

(From here in Australia. Merry Christmas Eve to many of you.) 

I know many of you aren’t optimistic about the future. You see defeat on the horizon, through AI, war, tyranny, ecological collapse or rampant social disintegration. 

Fair enough. It seems like the Enemy of Civilisation has powerful weapons and many pawns. 

But when hasn’t that been true? 

Take any golden age of human flourishing you like – the Enemy loomed there too, ready to work insidious plans to take it all down. 

Then take any period of strife. Hope still remained. People fought for peace and survival, hoping that things would improve one day. And they were right. Sometimes, a part of the world swung from catastrophe to a time of abundance in a generation. 

But if it’s cycle of rising and falling, that’s not much reason to hope. For you personally, a dark epoch might be on the horizon. Or society collectively, there’ll be more times of troubles. 

This is Christmas, though. 

Don’t forget what the season means. 

The birth of Jesus is the greatest cause for hope. It’s proof that God is not just on our side, but he’s willing to enter the fight on our behalf. We have a God willing to endure the indignities and pain of a mortal life just to give us the chance of salvation. 

That story is the bedrock of Western civilisation. 

Even those of think it’s just a story benefit from that, at least a little. Christ’s teachings are interwoven into Western thought so profoundly that you can’t separate the two. There’s nothing in secular ethics that says individual humans matter. They could just as easily argue that society’s flourishing matters more than a person’s. After all, society is bigger than us and will outlive us. And yet, secular morality almost always assumes people have divine souls worthy of dignity and protection. 

Even if they don’t use those words. 

Bad things might happen to us. 

But remember, a bad thing happened to Jesus. Romans nailed him to a cross and left him there until he died. 

And in his death was his greatest victory. 

Christ conquered the grave through his death. Christ will defeat the Enemy of Civilisation in time. 

So, yeah, you’ll face disasters and disappointments. 

Maybe you’ll win despite them. 

Maybe you’ll win because of them. 

You might as well follow Christ’s example here. 

By the way… 

Things aren’t hopeless for you. I know you struggle with things, like your career, your goals and maybe even your survival. 

Dating has probably never been this difficult. 

But in the spirit of Christmas, remember things aren’t hopeless. 

There are No Hopeless Men. Whatever makes you feel queasy or uneasy at the thought of dating, there’s a way through that. 

I won’t teach you game or rizz or anything like that. 

All I show you is how to overcome what’s in your way: 

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/

I’m okay with any man who decides to prioritise dating.

And I’m okay with any man stepping back from that to focus on other things.

What I’m not okay with is when a man feels hopeless about it. Relationships define your life. It’s important for your success, happiness and legacy. Giving up shouldn’t be an option.

Engage or withdraw, but don’t surrender. There’s too much at stake here.

I see so many men surrendering while telling everyone they’re choosing to withdraw. But a man who genuinely doesn’t care wouldn’t spew bile on the internet about women. Why would they? Such bitterness isn’t indifference.

Be honest with yourself.

Are you choosing the single life, lion? Are you still in the game? Or have you given up while pretending that’s your choice?

Don’t be hopeless.

Whatever you choose, choose it with conviction.

Need help with that?

Let go of whatever’s keeping you hopeless with No Hopeless Men.

It’s just ten minutes a day for as long as it takes. And it’s a quick read.

So you can begin practically immediately.

Begin now:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/

It’s easy to spot a good idea.

But it’s famously hard to tell the difference between a genius idea and an idiotic one. Elon’s entire brand seems to orbit this idea.

If you study history, you know what I mean. If you don’t, you probably wouldn’t follow the argument even if I explained it.

So let’s chase to the cut:

You might decide to delete the dating apps, stop going to bars, and focus entirely on your own growth and peace for a while.

Is that a brilliant idea or a terrible one?

It could be either.

If you’re running away, pouting about how mean all the ladies are, raging on social media about how you never really wanted a woman in your life anyway…

Well, again, I don’t need to spell that one out for you.

But giving up something pleasurable and desirable in order to better serve your mission? Yeah, lion, that’s awesome.

What’s the difference?

It’s whether you’ve read No Hopeless Men or not.

Read and apply it, and you’ll be able to do whatever you want. You can stick with dating. You can walk away and live as a monk. Either way, you’re doing it from a healthy place.

It’s the difference between a deliberate choice and taking the choice foisted upon you.

The difference between doing what’s right for you and doing what’s easiest in the moment.

The difference between a wise decision and one that’s painfully naïve.

If you value your future and your contributions to society, it’s really no choice at all.

Here’s the link:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/

A shout out to all the short kings out there!

I’m taller than most women, so I haven’t experienced this myself. But I hear that many women refuse to date a short guy. He can be rich, jacked, funny, caring, handsome, a snappy dresser and charming, but if he’s short? No chance.

That sucks, but at least it filters out the superficial ones.

I sympathise because No Hopeless Men is a short king.

It’s only ten pages long. It might be the shortest book I’ve ever published.

But – like a good man – it overflows with value.

Unlike a good man, you only need to engage with it for about ten minutes a day until you’re done with it.

Here’s how it works:

If you’re feeling miserable, bitter, lonely and cynical about your dating prospects, then that’s eroding you from the inside. Even if you don’t want to date, feeling that way poisons you.

You’re not finding yourself or focusing on your future. You’re marinading in anger and pity.

There’s a huge difference between that and genuinely deciding not to date.

One is moving towards something good – your peace, success and legacy.

The other is moving away from something bad – the drama, games and judgement.

Both are useful in the short term.

Only one is healthy over years and decades.

Whatever you choose, choose wisely:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/

As a man, you’ll pay either way.

If you’re out there dating, then you’ll pay for dates. Travel, dinner, coffee, drinks, gifts – it adds up. Sure, you’re not trying to woo any diggers of gold, but you still need to come across as generous and successful.

You can be smart with how you do it, but dating isn’t free.

If you’re single and you don’t want to be, then you’ll pay. At the extreme end, you turn yourself into a sub for a findom, surrendering your wallet to her in exchange for attention. Even if you avoid that – and OF and the like – it’ll cost you to numb and distract yourself from the relationship-shaped hole in your life.

Or… you can learn to overcome the hopeless you feel around dating.

Whether you date or not, feeling hopeless about it undermines you. Men are naturally optimistic creatures – to a fault. It’s why we do most of the fighting in war, start most of the businesses and think we can change the world for the better.

We think we’re indestructible conquerors. If men didn’t, humanity would have died out millennia ago.

So when you feel hopeless about something so important to you, it means something has gone wrong.

And yet, it’s incredibly common.

Does the thought of dating – or women more generally – make you depressed? Furious? Send you to the basement to finish your time machine, so you can go to an era where you can find a dream woman?

If so, you’re clinging tight to some potent negativity there.

And if you think that isn’t impacting the rest of your life, you don’t know yourself as you should.

You can’t focus on yourself while also grumbling at the ladies. That’s not how this works. To grumble is to lose your energy, happiness and focus.

So reclaim it.

Yeah, No Hopeless Men will cost you. At least it’s a one-time payment, though, unlike everything that saps your dynamism and personality.

A man simply existing will have to pay, one way or another. Be smart and go for the option with the best RoI:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/

What’s a good substitute for the woman who should be in your life but isn’t?

Video games?

Work?

Alcohol?

Adult entertainment?

Yeah, okay. Except the right woman in your life can be your partner, your biggest fan, your muse, your greatest motivation and the mother of your children. Nothing on that list above compares.

That’s not to say you have to enter a relationship, especially if you can’t find the right person. Often, being alone is the right choice.

But make sure you’re making that decision from a place of strength, not hopelessness.

Do you genuinely prefer the single and unattached life? Or is dating too hard, too fruitless and too draining to deal with?

Beware self-deception. It’s easier to tell yourself you don’t want it than to face the haunting future of an empty, loveless life.

Either way, you should transcend the baser emotions like fear, anger and pessimism before making a decision like that.

No Hopeless Men will ground you in your truth. It’ll introduce you to your strengths and help you decide your future from there.

When folks say they’re staying single to work on themselves, this is what they should mean.

This is how you heal from all that.

Not through hedonistic distractions but by facing your challenges and moving through them.

So begin moving now:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/