Loneliness is a gateway emotion.

There’s nothing wrong with it in and of itself. It just means you don’t have as much companionship as you want. That’s plenty reasonable.

But loneliness doesn’t always stay like that.

It often drifts into other emotions.

Like sadness over your situation.

Or anger towards everyone who keeps rejecting you.

Or feeling overwhelmed and exhausted by your situation.

Tell me… are any of those traits attractive? Are they more or less likely to lead to deeper, richer, more meaningful relationships?

And just how leading a question can I ask?

There’s no such thing as a good or bad emotion. Even wrath is good if it motivates you to get up and doing what needs doing.

Likewise, there’s no bad loneliness.

There’s loneliness that inspires you to make an effort and put yourself out there…

… and there’s loneliness that invites you to push everyone else away.

Which do you choose?

And how do you choose it?

No Hopeless Men shows you how.

It’s a short read – only ten pages. And you probably won’t even read all of it.

And the exercise is really simple. Ten minutes a day is plenty.

But it’s powerful because of consistency. Do it every day until you’re done.

Thanks to your work, just like that, you’re now able to feel a higher class of loneliness.

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Imagine two scenes for me. The first:

A woman comes up to you, says you’re the most handsome man she’s ever seen. She gets on her knees and begs you to go out with her, looking up at you with watery puppy eyes.

Let’s say you know this isn’t a prank, a trick, a scam or the result of some quirky mental illness. She’s genuine.

Do you like this?

Some guys would. Many guys – me included – would see this as a huge red flag, so I wouldn’t date her. It would give me a smile, though.

Second scenario:

Same thing, but reverse the genders. You, as a man, get on your knees and beg a woman to date you.

The best you can hope for there is she storms off in disgust. You could end up with a broken nose, pepper spray to the eyes or your very own viral video.

Desperation – it’s the ultimate turnoff in business, dating and theology. Which is hardly fair if you think about it. If you’re desperate, that just means you really need it. So why is it the ones who want something the most are the least likely to get it?

Well, because the universe doesn’t run on, with or towards fairness, for one.

Now, I could point out how it’s a reasonable heuristic – how anyone without a girlfriend or any business without customers might be like that for a reason.

But, really, does it matter why?

All you need to know is desperation gets between you and what you’re desperate for.

Well, there’s one other thing you need to know:

What to do about it.

Step 2: read the chapter in No Hopeless Men on desperation.

Step 3: do the releasing exercise every day until you’re sorted.

As for Step 1?

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Are you pulling back from a hopeless situation, freeing you up to focus your resources elsewhere?

Or are you giving up, taking the cowardly way out?

On of Aesop’s fables is about a fox trying to reach some grapes on a high vine. When he can’t get to them, he pouts and saunters off, saying he never wanted the grapes in the first place because they’re sour.

Do you feel like that towards dating right now? You delete the dating apps from your phone and you stop approaching women in bars – is that because it’s the smart move?

Or are you imitating the fox here, trying to reach a wife, failing, then pretending you didn’t want her anyway?

Answering this honestly is essential. After all, if you find dating too hard right now, how hard will it be after a few years of ageing and wallowing in your own sour grapes?

Here’s how you can tell:

If you think about dating and feel calm, indifferent or optimistic, then you might be okay.

If you feel angry, sad, exhausted, pessimistic, bored, scared, desperate or overwhelmed, then you definitely aren’t.

In that case, you need to read No Hopeless Men. The exercises are quick and simple – call it ten minutes a day – but will help you release and overcome your sour grapes.

Whether you keep dating or embrace your solitude, you won’t enjoy it until you’re okay with it.

So sweeten up your wine and get it here:

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A lot of men are stepping back from the dating scene.

Relationships, hook-ups, dreams of marriage – the lot.

Fair enough, too, given the state of the dating landscape these days. As a man, you can afford to take some time and focus on your growth for a while. It’ll only make you more attractive in the long run.

But is that what you’re doing?

Or are you throwing a tantrum and refusing the play because folks are being mean to you?

Aww, poor thing…

Look – if you can’t handle this, how will you face the real challenges when they come? Because they will come. Maybe not until you’re on your deathbed and bloated with regrets, but you’ll face them eventually.

I’m focusing on myself, not relationships could be a statement of tremendous strength or weakness. It’s strong if you genuinely put dating out of your mind and use your time wisely.

If, however, you keep scanning the bars, forlornly twisting your shoe as you hope some pretty girl will notice you…

Well, you get it.

So how do you know the difference? How do you know you really are being strong, not just lying to yourself and pretending you don’t want a relationship?

No Hopeless Men covers eight symptoms of dating hopelessness. If you feel any of them, it means you want – maybe even desperately want – a relationship. Any of these means you’re lonely.

And each of these can eat you alive.

Maybe you genuinely want to go your own way for a while. Maybe you want to keep looking for the right partner despite how hard it is.

Either way, you won’t get far if you’re clinging onto anger, exhaustion or desperation.

It’s time to let go of your excuses.

No Hopeless Men trains you to release the negative mindsets undermining your dating or single living. It’s easy to fall into these bad habits, especially with social media practically begging you to get mad or get sad about this.

Falling victim to that is a dumb move, though. You know it is.

So grab your copy, give it a read and do the exercises. Ten minutes a day for as long as it takes will free you from your burdens:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/

Are you burned out on dating?

Does the thought of swiping for hours on the apps, paying for yet another dinner, getting ghosted and enduring boring conversations fill you with disgust?

None of that will help you find love.

You know it’ll only get in the way – which makes giving into these feelings true weakness.

Love isn’t always easy, especially before you find it. That doesn’t mean you stop looking. Yeah, most women out there might be wrong for you in the most frustrating ways. Yeah, dating might always have been challenging and is now a hellscape of abuse and neurosis.

But we’re talking about love here, lion.

Are you really going to give up on it so easily?

I wrote No Hopeless Men for you – your guide to releasing the negativity around dating. From there, you’ll be free to keep looking or be content on your own.

But here’s a flag for you:

True contentedness doesn’t mean complaining about 304s on social media.

It has no room for complaining about your exes and clinging to contempt.

All that can be there is acceptance and love. Remember love? You were looking for it before your heart turned to stone.

Rekindle your love of love and your wise, full heart with No Hopeless Men here:

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