You already know that charisma and good people skills are the key to everything.
Employers look for them.
Good luck getting a date without them.
Even famously solitary professions – like being a novelist or software engineer – require you to be charming every so often. How are you going to promote your book or sell your boss on your ideas?
The bad news is that – outside of a few tired and tiresome tricks – no one teaches you how to have charisma. Not your school, not your friends, not your parents. You’re just expected to pick it up as you go.
(How’s that working out for you?)
The good news, though?
You’re already more charismatic than you think.
Yeah, I could do the salesy thing and wax poetic about how doomed you are without me. How you’ll wind up broke, alone and miserable. That’s not true, though. You already have enough to get started – to get by.
But…
… I bet cash to croissants you aren’t getting the results you want.
You’re struggling with love.
Or with your career.
Or with something as simple as making friends.
Sure, you probably won’t end up under a bridge if you don’t level up your charisma.
But things aren’t likely to get better for you than this. Not until you make some changes.
Maybe that’s okay for you. Maybe you’ve settled.
But if not…?
If you’re waiting for other folks to recognise how charming, witty and loveable you are, you might find yourself sitting alone, grimy from your long day at an unfulfilling job with nothing but a processed bowl of microwaved starch to keep you company.
I make no guarantees about anything, but Flavours of Charisma stacks the odds of changing in your favour. Things can get better for you, across so many aspects of your life, with just a few quick exercises a day.
How?
First, by showing you how you’re already charismatic:
- Are you an awkward, obsessive nerd? Then you thrive at the Philosopher Flavour of Charisma. When you know how to use your strengths, you can be the one person in the room that some people trust, talk to and like.
- Are you the group’s morality police, always fighting the urge to lecture and admonish? Learn how the Barrier flavour of charisma can turn eyerolls into unparalleled respect.
- Do you hate wasting time on parties when there’s work to be done? It sounds like you’re a Rocket, capable of whisking folks along with the sheer power of your drive.
- Is your faith, nationality or identity the most important thing? Learn how the Traditionalist flavour can mesmerise people – even those outside your “tribe”.
- Are you a party animal – always ready for a road trip, a night out or an excuse to blow off work? You might have fun but not everyone likes the Life of the Party – and here’s what you can do about it.
- Do you feel love and concern for everyone? Here’s why that isn’t usually reciprocated for the Compassionate Soul… and what you can do about it.
- Are you surrounded by folks who don’t understand, let alone appreciate, your ambitions? The Visionary flavour can leave you feeling lonely – unless you know how to win people over, sometimes turning you into a celebrity with a cult-like following.
- You’d think the People Person – someone with the biggest circles and networks – would be the most popular. And they are, once they know why so many folks don’t like them and what to do about it.
See, charisma isn’t all suits, suaveness and sophistication. For some folks, the most charming person in the room is the loyal father, the enthusiastic hobbyist or the kindest heart.
Which makes the most charismatic person the one who can move between these, being what the other person needs.
You’re already somewhat charismatic. Flavours of Charisma teaches you how to maximise your strengths and offset your weaknesses.
But it doesn’t stop there. Over the next eight weeks, you’ll learn how and when to embody all eight flavours of charisma. By the end, you’ll easily – maybe even automatically – be able to adjust your flavour based on what you need for the moment.
After all, there’s nothing more charming than someone seeing what you need and being that for you.
Learn to be that person over eight weeks where you’ll learn:
- “Magic key” charisma that uniquely aligns with someone else’s personality – which you can from an anti-role model,
- Why religious fanatics can appeal to even staunch atheists,
- How to be fun without being an obnoxious a-hole,
- The “single mother” charisma secret that makes you stand out from a crowd and attract secret respect from others,
- How playing make-believe can let you ethically steal the unique charisma flavours of anyone you want,
- Why Elon Musk’s fan base is so rabid – and how you can get a following so passionate of your own,
- How to open your heart with universal love for all peoples… without getting taken advantage of, being seen as a weirdo or coming across as painfully naïve,
- The “trinity” – what it is and how it can mesmerise colleagues, strangers and folks you don’t know yet,
- Lessons from a crazy king who built a loyal following and toppled an empire,
- Ways to leverage your narrow style of charisma into broad-spectrum appeal,
- How to make everyone you care about feel like family,
- Secrets to an insane focus and work ethic, where respect and admiration are side effects of you kicking arse,
- How to think more deeply and creatively about any issue,
- Simple ways to be more spontaneous… without burning your reputation or goals on the altar of hedonism,
- Better ways to improve your charisma than the usual shallow tricks people recommend. (“Use their name a lot in conversation!” Yeah, as if it could ever be that simple…)
- Why entrepreneurs are the new celebrities and old celebrities can be new pariahs,
- How to better remember people, what they like and how you can help each other,
- Why awkwardness can be a strength and sophistication can work against you,
- Reasons behind the hate that the most popular people you know receive, where it comes from and how to insulate yourself from that. It’s not perfect – no strategy makes you loved by everyone – but it’s the next best thing,
- What it takes to be the one people want to talk to,
- Why you shouldn’t learn charisma from sitcoms and how to do it anyway,
- How to channel an instinct to nag, lecture and be insufferable into a rare source of admiration, respect and gratitude,
If you’re ready to see just what you’re capable of – respectfully and true to who you are – then grab Flavours of Charisma below.