How to be spontaneous and not just stupid

Everyone loves a free spirit, right?

Want to make friends, all it takes is saying yes, and to everything that comes your way.

Sounds foolproof! It’s not like Jim Carrey and Zooey Deschanel could star in a movie outlining how it could go wrong…

Hanging around with a free spirit can be fun. It can also be annoying, tedious, exhausting and embarrassing.

Someone like that might be great to hang around with. Are they the type of person you’d marry, promote or entrust with your money?

Spontaneity is great until it damages your reputation or liver.

But the answer isn’t to turn your back on fun.

It’s to do what I describe in Flavours of Charisma – my guide to the multifaceted nature of human-to-human relating. Charisma isn’t always just the suave guy in a suit delivering smooth-as-oil pickup lines at a bar.

If you think about the popular, respected and influential people you know, you’ll see they’re popular in different ways.

Flavours of Charisma shows you how you’re already potentially popular, how to build on that and how to round out the flaws in your style.

After all, plenty of folks find the guy in the suit cheesy.

The best style of charisma changes to fit the person in front of you. What could be more influential than someone who sees who you are and responds appropriately?

Something to consider as you get your hands on Flavours of Charisma here:

antipater.page/charisma

Note: Email subscribers can buy this at the base price – look for the code in this month’s email signature blocks. For everyone else, it’ll cost a bit more.

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