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All roads lead to Mane

October 1st, 2023

Do you value tradition?

Then you no doubt pine for the days when men were real men.

Or does conformity bother you?

In which case, you’ll want to reject the common notion that masculinity is toxic, the patriarchy is awful and the only good man is a weak, submissive one.

Do you believe in order? Then you believe in discipline, justice and power – all masculine virtues.

Or do you love chaos – in other words, strength, resilience and decisiveness?

Do you want to conquer the world or save it?

No matter who you are or what you want, all your paths lead to greater masculinity.

That might upset you if you only see manliness as brutish, primitive and violent.

Or if you think you can’t attain it because you’re too short, skinny, meek or flabby.

Would it cheer you up to know you’re wrong on all counts there? Greater masculinity is the best – maybe only – way to respect, protect and nourish what’s precious to you. Masculinity enhances what’s good and worthy while destroying what’s weak or evil.

It’s your greatest strength – emphasis on your.

If you study truly masculine works – like the teachings of Marcus Aurelius, David Deida, Miyamoto Musashi and Robert Greene – then you know this.

And if you haven’t studied them, why not? You’ll learn more from them then from the ramblings of a “gender” “studies” “expert” on NervousTikTok, which should also be obvious to you.

Masculinity is noble, beautiful and profound.

Above all, it’s yours to embrace.

The best ways to enhance it?

You already know most of them. Exercise, sleep, good diet, a clear intention and a clearer purpose in life will all do it.

Another way?

Join in on the Mane Meditations.

These live guided meditations will introduce you to various masculine archetypes within you. Sometimes you need to buckle down and work. Other times, you need charm, wit and wisdom. Still others, you need to lead like a king.

That’s why each meditation focuses on a different archetype.

It’s as simple as joining the Zoom call and letting me guide you.

Best of all?

You pay what you think it’s worth.

There’s no better deal then that.

See October’s schedule here:

https://christianhypnotism.com/mane
The lions, the wizards and the warships

September 30th, 2023

Are you a lion – someone striving for a better way of living?

Do you like to have fun and not take everything so seriously?

Is there a heroic scifi or fantasy character inside you – a cunning wizard, a nimble explorer, a charming spaceship captain?

Then I want you as a player at my tabletop RPG games.

Whether you’re new or experienced, I run virtual tabletop games on the regular. It’s more than just fun – it’s a premium experience that, honestly, kicks the manure out of therapy for many folks.

That statement isn’t medical or psychological advice. Still, I know a few psychs who’d agree with me. There’s a reason some experts use games like these for troubled teens and vets with scars.

I reckon there’s a trend around the corner, where executives use games like this as team building and training for their high performers. Like microdosing, it’ll go from a weird hippie thing to something Silicon Valley embraces with both arms.

It’s too awesome for them not to.

Like coaching, though, the success of tabletop games like Dungeons & Dragons depends a lot on whose running it.

I have a decade of experience here, with dozens of games under my belt – plus my skills as a coach.

If you’re at all curious, intrigued or interested, I recommend joining my Discord channel. It’s free of cost and commitment – just a place where I advertise my games.

It’s the most convenient way to stay across what I’m up to on the gaming front.

Who knows? You might just find the perfect chance to grow.

Join for free here:

https://christianhypnotism.com/discord
Are video games fine, great or corrosive?

September 29th, 2023

It’s a debate that’s older than I am.

Video games – according to some, they build your visual intelligence, memory, problem solving skills and emotional resilience.

According to others, they hijack your brain’s reward centres, tricking you into thinking you’re crushing it while rotting in a chair.

Others still play the compromise card. “It’s fine in moderation!” they say about it – and everything else.

My take?

It’s human to indulge in vices. But if you’re going to, then I recommend you go for the cleanest high you can afford. Better the gourmet junk food than the late-night Maccas run.

Some video games are worse than others. Compare a well-made brawler to a mobile game designed to constantly interrupt you and beg for micropayments. Maybe a decade or two ago, the worst games were just bad, dull and boring. Now, the worst ones are worse for you than junk food.

So what are the best games?

I’m no expert but, in my experience, there’s a class of games that has all the best features of video games without the drawbacks. It’s fun, without being addictive. It’s immersive without it eroding your attention span. Rather than turning you into a sweaty, asocial weirdo, it improves your mental health and social skills.

Big claims.

But if you’ve played tabletop RPGs with the right folks, you know what I mean.

I run a regular Dungeons & Dragons game as the Game Master. I’d like to run more – and, when the urge strikes me, I create a new game.

The urge is striking me hard lately.

If you’re reading this, then you’re probably a lion – a king among men. Few others would plump the depths of the internet to find content as obscure and untapped as mine.

I like gaming with lions.

Whether you’re new to these games or experienced, whether you like fantasy or scifi, whether there’s room in your calendar for just the one game or a regular campaign, I suggest that you join my Discord channel. I just use it to promote and run my games, so it’s not the best place to discuss coaching or the like.

Still, if a daily email from me isn’t enough, check it out:

https://christianhypnotism.com/discord
No Hopeless Men, living up to the title

September 28th, 2023

I’m okay with any man who decides to prioritise dating.

And I’m okay with any man stepping back from that to focus on other things.

What I’m not okay with is when a man feels hopeless about it. Relationships define your life. It’s important for your success, happiness and legacy. Giving up shouldn’t be an option.

Engage or withdraw, but don’t surrender. There’s too much at stake here.

I see so many men surrendering while telling everyone they’re choosing to withdraw. But a man who genuinely doesn’t care wouldn’t spew bile on the internet about women. Why would they? Such bitterness isn’t indifference.

Be honest with yourself.

Are you choosing the single life, lion? Are you still in the game? Or have you given up while pretending that’s your choice?

Don’t be hopeless.

Whatever you choose, choose it with conviction.

Need help with that?

Let go of whatever’s keeping you hopeless with No Hopeless Men.

It’s just ten minutes a day for as long as it takes. And it’s a quick read.

So you can begin practically immediately.

Begin now:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/
When your wisdom is naiveté

September 28th, 2023

It’s easy to spot a good idea.

But it’s famously hard to tell the difference between a genius idea and an idiotic one. Elon’s entire brand seems to orbit this idea.

If you study history, you know what I mean. If you don’t, you probably wouldn’t follow the argument even if I explained it.

So let’s chase to the cut:

You might decide to delete the dating apps, stop going to bars, and focus entirely on your own growth and peace for a while.

Is that a brilliant idea or a terrible one?

It could be either.

If you’re running away, pouting about how mean all the ladies are, raging on social media about how you never really wanted a woman in your life anyway…

Well, again, I don’t need to spell that one out for you.

But giving up something pleasurable and desirable in order to better serve your mission? Yeah, lion, that’s awesome.

What’s the difference?

It’s whether you’ve read No Hopeless Men or not.

Read and apply it, and you’ll be able to do whatever you want. You can stick with dating. You can walk away and live as a monk. Either way, you’re doing it from a healthy place.

It’s the difference between a deliberate choice and taking the choice foisted upon you.

The difference between doing what’s right for you and doing what’s easiest in the moment.

The difference between a wise decision and one that’s painfully naïve.

If you value your future and your contributions to society, it’s really no choice at all.

Here’s the link:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/
This guide is a short king

September 27th, 2023

A shout out to all the short kings out there!

I’m taller than most women, so I haven’t experienced this myself. But I hear that many women refuse to date a short guy. He can be rich, jacked, funny, caring, handsome, a snappy dresser and charming, but if he’s short? No chance.

That sucks, but at least it filters out the superficial ones.

I sympathise because No Hopeless Men is a short king.

It’s only ten pages long. It might be the shortest book I’ve ever published.

But – like a good man – it overflows with value.

Unlike a good man, you only need to engage with it for about ten minutes a day until you’re done with it.

Here’s how it works:

If you’re feeling miserable, bitter, lonely and cynical about your dating prospects, then that’s eroding you from the inside. Even if you don’t want to date, feeling that way poisons you.

You’re not finding yourself or focusing on your future. You’re marinading in anger and pity.

There’s a huge difference between that and genuinely deciding not to date.

One is moving towards something good – your peace, success and legacy.

The other is moving away from something bad – the drama, games and judgement.

Both are useful in the short term.

Only one is healthy over years and decades.

Whatever you choose, choose wisely:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/
Pay up, loser(?)

September 27th, 2023

As a man, you’ll pay either way.

If you’re out there dating, then you’ll pay for dates. Travel, dinner, coffee, drinks, gifts – it adds up. Sure, you’re not trying to woo any diggers of gold, but you still need to come across as generous and successful.

You can be smart with how you do it, but dating isn’t free.

If you’re single and you don’t want to be, then you’ll pay. At the extreme end, you turn yourself into a sub for a findom, surrendering your wallet to her in exchange for attention. Even if you avoid that – and OF and the like – it’ll cost you to numb and distract yourself from the relationship-shaped hole in your life.

Or… you can learn to overcome the hopeless you feel around dating.

Whether you date or not, feeling hopeless about it undermines you. Men are naturally optimistic creatures – to a fault. It’s why we do most of the fighting in war, start most of the businesses and think we can change the world for the better.

We think we’re indestructible conquerors. If men didn’t, humanity would have died out millennia ago.

So when you feel hopeless about something so important to you, it means something has gone wrong.

And yet, it’s incredibly common.

Does the thought of dating – or women more generally – make you depressed? Furious? Send you to the basement to finish your time machine, so you can go to an era where you can find a dream woman?

If so, you’re clinging tight to some potent negativity there.

And if you think that isn’t impacting the rest of your life, you don’t know yourself as you should.

You can’t focus on yourself while also grumbling at the ladies. That’s not how this works. To grumble is to lose your energy, happiness and focus.

So reclaim it.

Yeah, No Hopeless Men will cost you. At least it’s a one-time payment, though, unlike everything that saps your dynamism and personality.

A man simply existing will have to pay, one way or another. Be smart and go for the option with the best RoI:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/
Substitutes? Or distractions?

September 26th, 2023

What’s a good substitute for the woman who should be in your life but isn’t?

Video games?

Work?

Alcohol?

Adult entertainment?

Yeah, okay. Except the right woman in your life can be your partner, your biggest fan, your muse, your greatest motivation and the mother of your children. Nothing on that list above compares.

That’s not to say you have to enter a relationship, especially if you can’t find the right person. Often, being alone is the right choice.

But make sure you’re making that decision from a place of strength, not hopelessness.

Do you genuinely prefer the single and unattached life? Or is dating too hard, too fruitless and too draining to deal with?

Beware self-deception. It’s easier to tell yourself you don’t want it than to face the haunting future of an empty, loveless life.

Either way, you should transcend the baser emotions like fear, anger and pessimism before making a decision like that.

No Hopeless Men will ground you in your truth. It’ll introduce you to your strengths and help you decide your future from there.

When folks say they’re staying single to work on themselves, this is what they should mean.

This is how you heal from all that.

Not through hedonistic distractions but by facing your challenges and moving through them.

So begin moving now:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/
Your loneliness is keeping you lonely

September 26th, 2023

Loneliness is a gateway emotion.

There’s nothing wrong with it in and of itself. It just means you don’t have as much companionship as you want. That’s plenty reasonable.

But loneliness doesn’t always stay like that.

It often drifts into other emotions.

Like sadness over your situation.

Or anger towards everyone who keeps rejecting you.

Or feeling overwhelmed and exhausted by your situation.

Tell me… are any of those traits attractive? Are they more or less likely to lead to deeper, richer, more meaningful relationships?

And just how leading a question can I ask?

There’s no such thing as a good or bad emotion. Even wrath is good if it motivates you to get up and doing what needs doing.

Likewise, there’s no bad loneliness.

There’s loneliness that inspires you to make an effort and put yourself out there…

… and there’s loneliness that invites you to push everyone else away.

Which do you choose?

And how do you choose it?

No Hopeless Men shows you how.

It’s a short read – only ten pages. And you probably won’t even read all of it.

And the exercise is really simple. Ten minutes a day is plenty.

But it’s powerful because of consistency. Do it every day until you’re done.

Thanks to your work, just like that, you’re now able to feel a higher class of loneliness.

Whether you want a relationship or to genuinely accept your single status, find No Hopeless Men here:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/
The ultimate turnoff for women

September 25th, 2023

Imagine two scenes for me. The first:

A woman comes up to you, says you’re the most handsome man she’s ever seen. She gets on her knees and begs you to go out with her, looking up at you with watery puppy eyes.

Let’s say you know this isn’t a prank, a trick, a scam or the result of some quirky mental illness. She’s genuine.

Do you like this?

Some guys would. Many guys – me included – would see this as a huge red flag, so I wouldn’t date her. It would give me a smile, though.

Second scenario:

Same thing, but reverse the genders. You, as a man, get on your knees and beg a woman to date you.

The best you can hope for there is she storms off in disgust. You could end up with a broken nose, pepper spray to the eyes or your very own viral video.

Desperation – it’s the ultimate turnoff in business, dating and theology. Which is hardly fair if you think about it. If you’re desperate, that just means you really need it. So why is it the ones who want something the most are the least likely to get it?

Well, because the universe doesn’t run on, with or towards fairness, for one.

Now, I could point out how it’s a reasonable heuristic – how anyone without a girlfriend or any business without customers might be like that for a reason.

But, really, does it matter why?

All you need to know is desperation gets between you and what you’re desperate for.

Well, there’s one other thing you need to know:

What to do about it.

Step 2: read the chapter in No Hopeless Men on desperation.

Step 3: do the releasing exercise every day until you’re sorted.

As for Step 1?

Get your hands on No Hopeless Men here:

https://christianhypnotism.com/downloads/no-hopeless-men/