There’s an underrated part of my exercise routine.
I walk to the gym. Right before I reach the gym, a few buildings down on the same street, there’s a luxury rental business. It looks like every other building on the street – a basic garage, all grime, concrete and old steel.
But inside, it is Beautiful. Posters of yachts and private planes line the walls, surrounding freshly waxed motorbikes and the most luxurious cars around.
Sometimes, they’ll even have some of them parked on the footpath. I might be walking along and then right in front of me is a gleaming, shiny Maserati.
It’s enough to make my heart flutter.
Then I work out for about 45 minutes, then I head back home the way I came – and there these superb vehicles are again, right in front of me. A glimpse of these is a nice little reward for me going to the gym.
And I can’t help but think about the psychology of this. And of Operational Christianity – my approach to life coaching built on Christian principles.
“Oh, I know what you’re doing here! You’re associating the wealth, status and awesomeness of luxury vehicles with exercising. It’s a motivation thing! You think about the gym and you automatically think about a Maserati!”
Well, yes, that’s the case.
“Urgh, how shallow. It’s ridiculous to talk about Christian principles and crass materialism in the same breath.”
Yep, also correct.
But there is far more happening with this than what the armchair psychologists and theologians can spot.
In fact, this short, simple story contains layers of psychological magic. Some more subtle than others, but even the more obvious layers are invisible to most people. It’d take more than someone who’s clever with psychology to see what I’m doing.
This story plants the seeds of psychological growth, even if you don’t know a Porsche from a potato. You might not care about luxury vehicles. That’s fine. You don’t need to to fully benefit from this experience.
Most life coaches have one of two styles:
(1) “What do you want? Okay, let’s create a plan and check in regularly.”
(2) “You’re the best! Believe in yourself and you’ll achieve your dreams!”
Both are valuable.
Lifechanging, sometimes.
But there’s a reason I don’t call myself a life coach. As useful as they can be, what if you don’t know what you want? What if your struggles need more than a basic plan and a motivational speech?
What if you want to advance as a person, not merely achieve a goal?
And do all that while aligning ever closer to your core values?
That requires change you can’t see coming.
It requires mental advancement on parts of your mind outside your awareness. You know that’s possible. The facts in your head are nothing compared to what you know from experience. Even if you can’t fully explain why.
You know that kindness is a positive thing. Good luck proving it though.
And the parts of your mind outside your awareness aren’t outside your ability to influence.
Or my ability, for that matter.
If you want to simply achieve a difficult goal, then there are plenty of talented life coaches out there who can help you.
But if you want to achieve that goal as a side effect of you becoming a greater version of yourself?
Well, now we’re talking.
And we can keep talking when you book in a consultation to discuss your next advancement:
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