I make no guarantees.

Nor would you believe me if I did.

Anything can happen between you buying Flavours of Charisma and eight weeks from now. Even if you put the work in, your industry might implode or you might decide to live as a forest-bound hermit.

But…

Here are some things that can happen from you reading this ol’ guide of mine:

You have more fun. Some of the charisma flavours are enjoyable in their own right. They can also all lead to new opportunities for you, which could mean invitations to hang out, job openings or exciting adventures.

It’s not implausible. The world runs on relationships, so getting better at charisma can improve everything. Many a career has been made off the back of someone’s people skills. Get better at that and you’ll probably get more of what you want – whatever that is.

Like I say, there are no guarantees to be found here.

(Not even money-back guarantees, as per my sales letter.)

But this stacks the odds better than just about anything you could be doing in those eight weeks.

Besides, how many of those other things get you to daydream about your favourite fictional characters? Because that’s something Flavours of Charisma includes. It’s my guide to the multifaceted nature of human-to-human relating. Charisma isn’t always just the suave guy in a suit delivering smooth-as-oil pickup lines at a bar.

If you think about the popular, respected and influential people you know, you’ll see they’re popular in different ways.

Flavours of Charisma shows you how you’re already potentially popular, how to build on that and how to round out the flaws in your style.

After all, plenty of folks find the guy in the suit cheesy.

The best style of charisma changes to fit the person in front of you. What could be more influential than someone who sees who you are and responds appropriately?

Something to consider as you get your hands on Flavours of Charisma here:

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With charisma, we often think of power.

And with power, we often think of might, wealth and status.

Does a young mother come to mind?

No?

Maybe she should.

There’s something young mothers often learn. Not all of them learn it quickly. Some never learn it at all. But it’s common and, when you see it, it’s damn impressive. It puts many executives to shame.

If you think young mothers are soft and pushovers, you haven’t seen them embody the Barrier. It’s a flavour of charisma many men go to the gym and hustle at work to get, with mixed results – yet a mother can often embody on instinct.

Those hustlers could learn a thing or two from the so-called fairer sex.

But what is the Barrier?

It’s one of the Flavours of Charisma – which is also the name of my guide to the multifaceted nature of human-to-human relating. Charisma isn’t always just the suave guy in a suit delivering smooth-as-oil pickup lines at a bar.

If you think about the popular, respected and influential people you know, you’ll see they’re popular in different ways.

Flavours of Charisma shows you how you’re already potentially popular, how to build on that and how to round out the flaws in your style.

After all, plenty of folks find the guy in the suit cheesy.

The best style of charisma changes to fit the person in front of you. What could be more influential than someone who sees who you are and responds appropriately?

Something to consider as you get your hands on Flavours of Charisma here:

antipater.page/charisma

Note: Email subscribers can buy this at the base price – look for the code in this month’s email signature blocks. For everyone else, it’ll cost a bit more.

Think of someone who’s the epitome of charisma.

Who did you think of?

James Bond?

Don Draper?

Obama?

Good choices – they’re all smooth as hell.

But remember, not everyone likes them. In fact, plenty of folks find men like them to be dull,

if

not

repulsive.

And that’s great news for you! Want to know who’s more popular than the rich entrepreneur in the suit who’s great at parties?

Someone who’s flexible – who can turn on the charm when needed but doesn’t rely on that.

Because plenty of people aren’t impressed by wealth or corporate success. They like someone who’s good to their family and community.

Or someone who knows right from wrong.

Or someone with boundless compassion – or boundless enthusiasm.

There’s more than one way to be charismatic. Get even decent at a range of flavours and you can talk to anyone.

How, though?

Consider investing in Flavours of Charisma – my guide to the multifaceted nature of human-to-human relating. Charisma isn’t always just the suave guy in a suit delivering smooth-as-oil pickup lines at a bar.

If you think about the popular, respected and influential people you know, you’ll see they’re popular in different ways.

Flavours of Charisma shows you how you’re already potentially popular, how to build on that and how to round out the flaws in your style.

After all, plenty of folks find the guy in the suit cheesy.

The best style of charisma changes to fit the person in front of you. What could be more influential than someone who sees who you are and responds appropriately?

Something to consider as you get your hands on Flavours of Charisma here:

antipater.page/charisma

Note: Email subscribers can buy this at the base price – look for the code in this month’s email signature blocks. For everyone else, it’ll cost a bit more.

There are so many ways someone can be charming, persuasive and likeable.

Oh, so many ways.

In Flavours of Charisma, I outline eight of them.

One stands out as being the most fun – by far. This is the Life of the Party, called that because…

Well, you could probably guess.

But here’s the thing:

It may in fact be the most fun, but it has some risks to it. There are obvious dangers to showing up to a networking event with a half-empty bottle of rum in one hand, a kebab in the other and a traffic cone on your head.

Dangers to your charisma, I mean – not just to your liver and rap sheet.

Some folks love the Life of the Party. Some don’t. When you know who is least likely to find that charming and why, you can smooth out the rough edges.

You can love life while still befriending the calmer, quieter, more serious types.

I outline a few ways how in Flavours of Charisma – my guide to the multifaceted nature of human-to-human relating. Charisma isn’t always just the suave guy in a suit delivering smooth-as-oil pickup lines at a bar.

If you think about the popular, respected and influential people you know, you’ll see they’re popular in different ways.

Flavours of Charisma shows you how you’re already potentially popular, how to build on that and how to round out the flaws in your style.

After all, plenty of folks find the guy in the suit cheesy.

The best style of charisma changes to fit the person in front of you. What could be more influential than someone who sees who you are and responds appropriately?

Something to consider as you get your hands on Flavours of Charisma here:

antipater.page/charisma

Note: Email subscribers can buy this at the base price – look for the code in this month’s email signature blocks. For everyone else, it’ll cost a bit more.

One of the Flavours of Charisma is what I call the Rocket.

The Rocket is a force of nature. People don’t so much follow them as get swept along by their passing. They’re focused, fixated and sometimes a little ferocious.

Anyone who acts with conviction is charismatic. And the Rocket oozes conviction – a total confidence in who they are and what they do.

These people want to and can rise to the top of hypercompetitive fields.

Will I teach you how to be a domineering dynamo who crushes all obstacles in their path?

Nah.

But I don’t need to. Having just a little bit of the Rocket in your pocket makes you more charismatic. You don’t need to build a corporate empire here – just ordering your meal with conviction is more persuasive than someone who hesitates, shrugs and asks for it with a rising inflection.

Having a bit more conviction – now that’s something I do cover in Flavours of Charisma, my guide to the multifaceted nature of human-to-human relating. Charisma isn’t always just the suave guy in a suit delivering smooth-as-oil pickup lines at a bar.

So if you think about the popular, respected and influential people you know, you’ll see they’re popular in different ways.

Flavours of Charisma shows you how you’re already potentially popular, how to build on that and how to round out the flaws in your style.

After all, plenty of folks find the guy in the suit cheesy.

The best style of charisma changes to fit the person in front of you. What could be more influential than someone who sees who you are and responds appropriately?

Something to consider as you get your hands on Flavours of Charisma here:

antipater.page/charisma

Note: Email subscribers can buy this at the base price – look for the code in this month’s email signature blocks. For everyone else, it’s a little more expensive.

Truly charismatic folks don’t use “formulas”, “techniques” or “processes”. They treat the person on front of them as important and interesting.

But there is a 5-step process for learning how to do the same.

See, unlike the charisma superstars, many folks rely on an approach or two they like to use. This one is for sales. This one, dating.

Or they don’t even think about it, just saying what comes to mind and treating everyone the same.

Does that work?

It can – but doing that’s a number’s game. But it’ll fizzle and splutter a lot. The only way to succeed like that is by talking to a lot of people and hoping it all works out.

Better is to learn eight Flavours of Charisma – each of which is a suite of approaches (a way of being, really). When you know which one to use – and this guide teaches you how to know that too – then you can engage with them how they want to be.

Some people want to be charmed. Others just want to be heard. Others still look for common bonds between you and them.

That’s why truly charismatic folks don’t use techniques. They consider the person in front of them and then treat them differently from everyone else.

The best way to learn how to do this is to be born naturally charismatic.

For the rest of us, though, the best way is to spend eight weeks practicing the five steps.

The first step builds on the flavours of charisma you already excel at – showing you how to use your habits to charm and mesmerise.

From there, the next four steps get real fun.

It’s all in Flavours of Charisma – my guide to the multifaceted nature of human-to-human relating. Charisma isn’t always just the suave guy in a suit delivering smooth-as-oil pickup lines at a bar.

If you think about the popular, respected and influential people you know, you’ll see they’re popular in different ways.

Flavours of Charisma shows you how you’re already potentially popular, how to build on that and how to round out the flaws in your style.

The best style of charisma changes to fit the person in front of you. What could be more influential than someone who sees who you are and responds appropriately?

Something to consider as you get your hands on Flavours of Charisma here:

antipater.page/charisma

Note: Email subscribers can buy this at the base price – look for the code in this month’s email signature blocks. For everyone else, it’s a little more expensive.

I have a rule:

Don’t take life lessons from sitcoms.

You could learn a lot about writing, psychology and even philosophy from a classic sitcom like Seinfeld.

Life lessons though?

All sitcom characters are bad people. If they weren’t, it wouldn’t be fun. Perfect people are painful to watch.

It can get worse than that, though. In great sitcoms, the bad people aren’t pretending to be good and, besides, you get to watch them suffer.

Things get bad when the writers portray bad behaviour as good behaviour that gets rewarded.

The classic example of this?

Consider the man who’s meek, passive-aggressive, indecisive, apologetic and pathetic. Folks say that he’s kind, but he’s not – he’s just too afraid of causing conflict to upset anyone.

In sitcoms, he’ll probably get the girl.

In real life, though…?

So, yeah, avoid learning life lessons from guys like that.

Having said that…

There is something you can learn from these exaggerated caricatures of the unpopular nerd. Something you can use to supercharge your popularity, ironically enough.

This approach doesn’t work with everyone. In fact, most folks find it repellent.

For those whom it does work on, though, it makes you immediately and intensely impressive, memorable and influential. Who knows – maybe this approach could even get you the girl one day.

More likely, you’ll impress people who find most folks boring.

This is the Philosopher. It’s one of the eight styles described in Flavours of Charisma – my guide to the multifaceted nature of human-to-human relating. Charisma isn’t always just the suave guy in a suit delivering smooth-as-oil pickup lines at a bar.

If you think about the popular, respected and influential people you know, you’ll see they’re popular in different ways.

Flavours of Charisma shows you how you’re already potentially popular, how to build on that and how to round out the flaws in your style.

After all, plenty of folks find the guy in the suit cheesy.

The best style of charisma changes to fit the person in front of you. What could be more influential than someone who sees who you are and responds appropriately?

Something to consider as you get your hands on Flavours of Charisma here:

antipater.page/charisma

Note: Email subscribers can buy this at the base price – look for the code in this month’s email signature block. For everyone else, it’s a little more expensive.